ruthlyn supports nwnw
Even after a bitter divorce, she STILL believes in marriage… Ruthlyn shows support for Christelyn‘s No Wedding No Womb movement. She makes really good points, so please see below.
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Shes hot. But lets be honest, this NWNW isn’t going to make a dent in anything because the government is going to pay for these young girls lifestyle choices regardless. As long as the goverment pays for the lifestyle of women who get knocked up by who knows who and have 3 kids by 25 while being unemployed, this idea is going nowhere. The only women supporting it (and listening to it) are the ones who already would have had the common sense to NOT try to get knocked up in the first place. Like Mike Huckabee said, if it weren’t for the government, all these project kids would be starving to death. Vote Democrat, save the single moms and their babies, continue our downward spiral to debt oblivion. Yayyyyy, besides, you wouldn’t want to vote Republican and let these kids starve to death would you? Our countries going to keep going to the shitter because morals don’t exist in most of the population. Look at Japan, when the tsunami hit, that was way worse than Katrina but you still didn’t see people rioting and stealing big screen TV’s did you? I wonder if Japan has a show called Teen Mom or anything like it? hmmmmmmmmm
For once I can actually read through one of your comments & not want to strangle you. Yet I think you are wrong about one thing…. The government is not going to keep paying for everything forever because the government is bankrupt. Services are already being cut even in the bluest of welfare states like massachusetts. It will get to a point where only the truly needy will get anything and an able bodied 25 year old won’t be considered truly needy anymore as being pregnant & on your back getting dicked down 24/7 will no longer be considered a disability
Thats wishful thinking, if the government really does go bankrupt (which it will, just a matter of when and if it happens in our lifetime), were going to have much bigger issues than NWNW. Even as our country is strangled to near death with debt as it is now, hows a bill called Stop Giving Welfare to Single Moms going to look? Yeah, thats a campaign I’ll run on. (if only they could take away women’s right to vote, then maybe I could get that one through. . . . . dammit) While yall are at it, maybe start up an issue called GHS, or Graduate High School. I’ll even let you claim the credit for that one.
Want to strangle me yet?
much worst bills have gone through. i wouldn’t be surprise if SGWSM was actually drafted in the near future and signed. that’s your platform? if so, I’m going to start wearing a button that says: “That Guy 2012.”
and i didn’t say they would completely take out aid. just make it less accesible. i don’t wish to eliminate aid because there are truly needy people. we just need to cut the abuse. and by abuse i mean: women abusing their vaginas for the purpose of collecting wic for 5 years.
Awesome idea. I can imagine it now. . .
Case worker comes to single moms home. Does investigation, and leaves shortly thereafter.
Two weeks later, single mom gets letter in the mail. Letter reads
Sooooo, after review the state of Wherever has decided that you are abusing the system by popping out too many babies for welfare benefits and you are a complete drag on society as a whole. You will be hereby cut off from all forms of welfare including food stamps and section 8, so have fun raising your kids on the street and eating out of dumpsters. Oh, and don’t turn to robbery because if you get caught we will put you in a building where we will punish you with free room and board. K thanks bye.
Here’s an idea, instead of prison we make Foxxconn like facilities here in the US and send the delinquents there, solving the prison overpopulation problem and our trade deficit. Sorry little Lamont, but because your mom decided to have to collect welfare and no well-to-do mom wants to adopt you (since oriental and African babies are “in” now) we are banishing you and your mom to a sweat shop, I mean fun shop. Vote That Guy 2012, real solutions for real issues.
ITA with what Ruthlyn says. Speaking as someone who has been married for 13 years, it isn’t easy and anyone who tells you that marriage is, must be lying. It is a level of commitment that is bigger than people know. No one goes into it wanting it to fail, but for the majority of us, we were never shown how to have a healthy relationship. I have known people who come from a long line of single parents and they just see it as normal and are convinced that it had no effect on them at all. Nia Long made an interesting comment when interviewed recently. She said that she didn’t see a problem with raising a child on her own because her mother did. Marriage is not the answer, but accountability is and that is the problem. No one wants to take the responsibility of understanding that it takes two people to parent a kid or that kid will grow up with some issues and repeat the cycle because they weren’t shown any other way. I think that if we put as much energy and focus on planning the wedding and reception, as we should on pre-marital counseling, a lot of marriages would not happen and the divorce rate would drop significantly.I just think that when you have kids, you stay committed to them, even if the relationship doesn’t work out. Some men use the excuse that the woman makes it impossible for them to have contact with the kid because they are bitter about the way things went, but it is only an excuse to get out of the responsibility to be present in that child’s life. I would move Heaven and Earth to be with my kids no matter what. How can anyone just give up on a human being that is a part of them??? Obviously, through environment, they are conditioned to think it’s normal. Well, it isn’t, and we as a society need to do better.
I have nothing else to add to this comment. Too bad more women don’t think like us.
Its sooo bad today, that parties which used to be wedding after parties complete with favors are used for BABY SHOWER parties–baby showers have the names of the parents and they have no intention of getting married–MEN even go to baby showers since the’re no WEDDINGS to go to
where the hell are you????? write a new post!